@Chun Lim
Life is what happens when you making other plan,
so instead of stick with your plan strictly,
why not loosen yourself and be familiar with the situation?
You'll never walk alone, Liverpool.
Love isn't trauma,
just that you need a little confident to take the initiative,
if you don't, it's fine with me.
but think of it,
when you see shes with some other guy next time,
won't you feel regret?
:) Go for it after all.
and i am fine thanks for your concern,
i would say take good care of your grandma,
and take action whenever you think you have to.
you have to decide what is right and what is easy.
so that's life,
live your life to the max.
so have fun with your new semester,
will be coming back soon.
Life isn't hard as long as you appreciate.
Human don't appreciate everything in their life,
they simply can't, because almost everything are with two sides.
When you take A, you have to drop B.
So you appreciated A, and you rejected B, so you don't appreciate B.
and that's it, you can't appreciate everything.
Many people said that life's hard,
what is so hard about life?
Working? Living? Food?
You should appreciate that you have a work
when there are millions out there doesn't have a job.
Degree holders fight for job opportunity,
even have to go to beg for a job.
What about barking your job is hard and uncomfortable?
Those out there waiting for you leaving.
Living? there are so many cases happened.
Those victims of war and crime,
they didn't have a chance to choose,
why don't you live your life to the max
instead of barking that life isn't easy?
Food, my foot. Vegetables are not delicious?
This and that are not your type of food?
What about those kids in Africa?
3 of them added together will only enough to your body size.
After all, if you appreciate those little things in life,
your life become perfect, start changing.
Being an exchange student is not easy,
but how many people out there qualified for the chance?
You are qualified because of your qualities,
do appreciate the chance given by the others,
show them what you capable of,
be a shining one after programs,
isn't that Life?
Life is so easy as long as you appreciate.
Forces are motion to move
Pressure are motion to success
Work are motion to better life.
so why not?
I am still.
I am still the entertainer.
See, being friend for my friends never be easy job,
They never satisfied. They never have enough.
I am expecting my friends to find me sometimes,
it just doesn't necessary have to be me who always take the initiative.
but things in life, just go different way as you thought how it should be,
and you have nothing to do with those facts,
all you can do is keep going, accepting those facts and try to think of solutions.
Being a friend,
What does it meant to be?
From a stranger to a friend,
it is common, obviously.
besides?
A friend in need is a friend indeed,
then i am surely a friend,
but that doesn't mean everyone pays back the same.
rather to say use,
i choose to say they are oiawFriend,
Once in a while Friend,
when they need you, you will have to turn up
else they will be sarcastic or even insult,
when you ain't there if they need you,
they will probably shout you in your face and shout get the fuck out of my life,
where are you when i need you?
so fit yourself in my shoes,
and now, what if you have something important going on while i need help,
will you just throw off everything, and help me immediately?
You can't expect me to help you every time,
my help is not a must.
I choose to help or not.
To be depressed is to be lonely, to have a friend is to be happy.
I am depressed, so i am lonely,
where are those friends who chat with me,
when they are depressed, in need and confused?
I need help, definitely.
save me if you think i am worth of it.
What is more important?
With money you can buy sex but not love.
With money you can buy house but not home.
With money you can buy clock but not time.
With money you can buy medicine but not health.
With money you can bury yourself but not your soul.
With money you can buy a friend but not friendship.
With money you can buy certificate but not knowledge.
With money you can buy laughter but not happy.
With money you can do most of thing, but those little things seem more important :) Live good, money can be earned with hard work.
front part quoted from my teacher.
last part by me :)
Yes, wealth is getting more and more important,
at the same time, health drops value,
at the end of life, your wealth couldn't get yourself a healthy health anymore,
you may end up sleeping in gold casket,
so what is the point earning so much?
Learn to relax and learn to let go,
those make you happy and let you have wider perspective.
when you start open your mind, you will see something just total different
you will realize that, why didn't you think about it before you change.
I start to let go, i start to buy things.
Though it is not my money,
I save when i have to.
I spend when i need to.
Life is what happened after you planned everything.
I planned to go Swiss, but ya, i don't think of going anymore,
I will be going end of the year after all,
so why don't i stay for 2 weeks with my hosties.
4 months left, i start missing them already.
I wouldn't have let go my friends from here,
but if i given a chance again,
i will still be here.
Living is not to make others happy,
is about how you make yourself live to the fullest.
whenever there are something or someone against your opinion,
listen to them if they aren't crapping,
against them and fight for fairness if they just want to disturb and distract you.
after 6 months being here,
I really think i have grown up,
being more mature will help me handle problem more appropriately.
and i have learnt a lot after being here,
learning language, time-management, new culture, new lifestyle,
how they support recycle campaign, how they show respect to the others.
When you outside of your own country,
you see things different,
you see how the foreigners see.
You experience how it feels to be a foreigner.
and look at those jokes happened in your own country,
you feel uncomfortable,
you need help,
but you just couldn't get it out of your mind,
you couldn't concentrate,
you feel helpless,
but, it is okay,
you will be patriotic,
you learn to fight for rights,
you learn to be a loyal citizen,
you will be fine after back from other country.
Me,
will be fine. :)
of course,
i am fine with all problems,
i think i could handle them.
whenever i couldn't,
there will always be people behind me and backs me.
i love those people. thanks to them very much.